Being a Defence Services institute created through funding by the three services good behaviour and correct etiquette by all members is called for as would be generally expected in officers' messes. It has therefore been endeavoured in the succeeding paragraphs to codify the ‘Code of Conduct' for members so that the customs and traditions of the services and maintained and preserved.
Basic Code
a) Every member is expected at all times to ensure that the decorum, traditions, and etiquette of the institute are upheld.
b) No member is expected to behave in any manner which is against the interest of the institute, whether while using the institute or outside.
c) In case any member comes to know of any actions of any other member which are detrimental to the larger interests of the institute, it is his duty to admonish such member and bring this is to notice of the Management Committee.
d) Using institute property with due care and regard for its maintenance and upkeep.
e) To totally eradicate “politics” from institute culture.
f) Don't criticize the institute for the ‘Sake of Criticising' Take ‘Pride' in your institute. Constructive suggestions are always welcome.
Conduct in dealing with other members
All members are required to maintain proper protocol and decorum while dealing with other members. The following actions are specifically prohibited:
Raising voice while speaking to Fellow Members or their guests.
Using rude, impolite, threatening and
unparliamentarily
language.
Involve in an assault or affray with any other member of guests.
Unsocial activities in public such as using of cell phones in the hearing of fellow members.
Rash driving, blowing of horn and improper parking. Pedestrians have a right of way in the institute premises.
Display due respect and regard particularly towards senior/elderly members and ladies.
Customary wishing should be encouraged amongst members.
While corresponding with the institute use courteous language.
Actions with dishonest intentions:
All members are required to be honest in all their dealings with institute, staff and other member. Tipping waiters and staff is strictly prohibited.
Behaviour with staff
All members are required to maintain proper behaviour and decorum while dealing with staff. The following are the common misdemeanors which should be avoided:
Shouting at staff
Mishandling and using physical force while dealing with staff.
Visiting areas which are out of bounds for the members like kitchen and service areas.
Control over self
It is beholden duty of all members to be in control of their faculties all the time. While taking of alcohol and alcoholic drinks is not prohibited, however being inebriated or using rude and impolite language under the influence of liquor is against the Code of Conduct required of a member.
Control of Guests
It is the duty and the responsibility of all members to ensure that their guests behaviour and etiquette is of the requisite standard. In case of any breach of conduct or misbehaviour by the guests, the responsibility is of the member concerned.
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